How to Choose Between Two Difficult Options

If you're faced with two difficult options to choose between, you've probably been struggling to make a decision for some time. Use this exercise to help you make the decision that is most right for you and your path in life.

Instructions

Step 1

Place both hands out to your sides, arms bent, like you are a giant scale. Put your palms up, like you are ready to weigh an object in each hand.

Step 2
Starting with your arms level, choose one hand for "yes" and the other for "no."

Step 3
Ask yourself yes/no questions, and feel the chosen hand drop, as if a pile of rocks were placed into that hand.

Step 4
Continue to ask questions to narrow down your answers.

Step 5
If you are choosing between two options, you can also "place" each option into a hand, instead of using the yes/no. Example: "interviewing for X job" could be in your left hand and "interviewing for Y job" could be in your right hand.

Step 6
You will get a feeling of resonance when you tap into your subconscious. If it feels forced or not working, take a few breaths and try again. Be patient with yourself.